Obituaries

Morten Rubin
D: 2017-05-22
View Details
Rubin, Morten
Bernice Gordon
D: 2017-05-21
View Details
Gordon, Bernice
Lillian Rutcofsky
D: 2017-05-19
View Details
Rutcofsky, Lillian
Alice Silverman
D: 2017-05-19
View Details
Silverman, Alice
Anne Seiden
D: 2017-05-18
View Details
Seiden, Anne
Paul Karp
D: 2017-05-17
View Details
Karp, Paul
Raymond Bienstock
D: 2017-05-17
View Details
Bienstock, Raymond
Valerie Levy
D: 2017-05-15
View Details
Levy, Valerie
Paul Bratman
D: 2017-05-12
View Details
Bratman, Paul
Duffy Magesis
D: 2017-05-10
View Details
Magesis, Duffy
Frieda Mishoff
D: 2017-05-08
View Details
Mishoff, Frieda
Barbara Brooker
D: 2017-04-27
View Details
Brooker, Barbara
Frances Albahae
D: 2017-04-27
View Details
Albahae, Frances
Minora Cohen
D: 2017-04-22
View Details
Cohen, Minora
Lester Greene
D: 2017-04-22
View Details
Greene, Lester
Irva Fiamma
D: 2017-04-16
View Details
Fiamma, Irva
Dorothy Blaustein
D: 2017-04-16
View Details
Blaustein, Dorothy
Goldie Lober
D: 2017-04-15
View Details
Lober, Goldie
Richard Love
D: 2017-04-15
View Details
Love, Richard
Alfred Harmon
D: 2017-04-14
View Details
Harmon, Alfred
Arnold Schorr
D: 2017-04-07
View Details
Schorr, Arnold

Search

Use the form above to find your loved one. You can search using the name of your loved one, or any family name for current or past services entrusted to our firm.

Click here to view all obituaries
Search Obituaries
1283 Coney Island Avenue
BROOKLYN, NY 11230
Phone: (718) 377-7300
Fax: [718] 377-8388

Yahrzeit Observances and Calendar

The Jewish mourning tradition of Yahrzeit marks the yearly anniversary of a death. Yahrzeit is observed according to the Hebrew calendar, and begins in the evening before the anniversary, and lasts until the next sundown.

Remembering that Jewish funeral practices are guided by the family's membership in one of the three Jewish movements–Orthodox, Conservative, or Reform, we can easily understand that there would be variations in the way Yahrzeit is observed.

With that said, traditionally the observance of Yahrzeit takes place in different locations: the home, the synagogue and the cemetery; and is observed by three distinct activities: the lighting of candles, the recitation of prayer, and a generous charitable action.

The first Yahrzeit observance involved the recitation of the Mourner's Kaddish prayer at the synagogue with a minyan, the traditional quorum of ten Jewish adult men required for certain religious obligations. However, non-Orthodox streams of Judaism allow adult females to participate in the minyan. This is done at morning, afternoon, and evening services. If there is a memorial Yahrzeit plaque for the deceased at the synagogue, its light will be ceremonially lit in recognition of this anniversary. 

The second observance takes place at home, where the mourner's light a candle or memorial lamp in commemoration of their death. The other location for Yahrzeit observances is the grave of the deceased, where visitors recite proscribed prayers.  

The third Yahrzeit observance involves charitable giving, or Tzedakah, which has long a part of Judaic tradition. So much so that Rabbi Bradley Savit Artson wrote, "Tzedakah is not about giving; Tzedakah is about being." The practice of Tzedakah, as it relates to Yahrzeit, involves making a charitable donation in memory of the deceased.

How We Can Help


To assist Jewish families in the determination of the proper date for Yahrzeit observances in commemoration of a loved one, Sherman's Flatbush Memorial Chapel, Inc., Inc. provides everyone who asks with a personal Yahrzeit calendar. Simply fill out the fields and your request will be sent to us. And a Yahrzeit calendar will be sent to you shortly. If you have additional questions about Yahrzeit observances, or need assistance with our online Yahrzeit calendar request form, please call us at (718) 377-7300. A member of our staff will be pleased to assist you.
 

Receive a Yahrzeit calendar

Fill in the fields below, then click submit. Your request will be sent to Sherman's Flatbush Memorial Chapel, and a Yahrzeit Calendar will be sent to you shortly.

Name of Deceased:
Cemetery:
Date of Death:
Death Occurred After Sundown:
Your E-Mail Address:
Your Full Name:
Your Address:
City, State, Zip

 

 

 

 

 

Sources:

Lamm, Maurice, "Yahrzeit: Memorial Anniversary", Chabad, accessed 2014.
http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/281636/jewish/Yahrzeit-Memorial-Anniversary.htm